2. Why the Way We’ve Been Measuring Success Makes us Feel Inadequate
In this podcast episode, I discuss the traditional model of success and how it often leads to feelings of inadequacy and dissatisfaction. I challenge you to question your own definition of success and I shared my own journey towards reevaluating my measures of success. I highlighted three reasons why people may feel inadequate: not fitting into societal norms, placing trust in society over oneself, and losing touch with one's true identity. I emphasized the importance of exploring personal desires, practicing gratitude, and embracing financial therapy as a means to unlock suppressed desires and achieve success with significance. Key Points: • The traditional model of success, based on societal expectations, often leaves individuals feeling inadequate and unfulfilled. • Feeling inadequate stems from not fitting into societal norms and wanting to be "normal," despite personal differences and desires. • Placing trust in society's definition of success rather than trusting oneself can lead to dissatisfaction and a lack of fulfillment. • Rediscovering one's true identity and desires is crucial for finding true success and fulfillment. • Financial therapy is a powerful tool to unlock suppressed desires and achieve success with significance. • Practicing gratitude and accepting the possibility of growth and further success are essential for finding fulfillment. "True fulfillment is about knowing what you really want, who you really are, and being grateful for who you are and what you have, as you accept the possibility for more." - Kine